It took quite some time, but I'm finally pleased with the results and hope you enjoy them too :)
Recommended: DPM++ 2M SDE Karras // Euler ancestral
CFG: 5-8 (6 is a nice start)
Steps: 42-60+
Perfect Realism look, VAE is baked in so no need. :)
For prompt inspiration feel free to try my female character database here: https://civitai.com/articles/14248/female-character-database-and-prompt-table-for-comfyui-and-pony-sdxl