Selfie time all the time.
V2 Update: Re-trained data as a Lycoris, trained in new trigger words.
Realism models tend to resist a selfie pov sans camera, even with Controlnet. This Lora aids poses where one or both arms appear to be reaching behind the camera, with the camera/phone out of frame. Works with one person or couples. Also helps OpenPose controlnet allow hands to be out of frame.
Try with 0.7-0.85 weight, "armoutstretched" trigger word, more emphasis may be required for more complex prompts. Also try adding "pov view" to assist.